30 Would You Rather Questions for Couples: Funny, Personal and Flirty
An either-or question is easy to answer: you just pick. Take any of these thirty — the good part starts right after “why?”
- Questions: 30 questions
- Mood: Funny, personal, flirty
- Where: Together or over text
Example
Which would you pick?
A perfectly planned evening
A walk with no route
You each pick on your own. Picks open once you've both chosen.
How to play
One of you asks, you both answer — and only then explain. It's most fun when the answers land at the same time: write yours down or say it on the count of three, so nobody adjusts to the other.
Start with the funny ones — they get the conversation moving. Personal and flirty questions go down easier once you've laughed a bit.
10 funny questions
A warm-up. Works for couples and for friends.
Fly, but never higher than two feet or turn invisible, but only when nobody's looking?
Ask where they'd go first. Answers to questions like this often say more than you'd expect.
Always know the exact time without a clock or always know where your keys are?
A good one for people who are always late or always searching for something. Often it's the same person.
Live in a house made of chocolate or live in a house with a trampoline for a floor?
The follow-up asks itself: so how do you have guests over?
Understand what dogs are saying or understand what babies are saying?
Ask them to explain: which is more useful, and whose secrets are better?
Wake up to a fanfare or fall asleep to applause?
It's really a question about what you need more: a bright start or some credit at the end of the day.
Eat soup with a fork or eat spaghetti with a spoon?
Pure nonsense. Perfect for starting the game and dropping any seriousness.
A personal narrator for your day or a personal theme song whenever you enter a room?
Ask which song — and try to guess it first.
Find a coin every day or find a forgotten bill in your winter coat once a year?
Small joys often or a big one rarely — good to know before you pick a gift.
Never sit in traffic again or never wait for a page to load again?
You'll learn fast what annoys them more: the road or the screen.
Sneeze glitter or hiccup melodies?
The last one in the set. After this, you're ready for the personal ones.
10 personal questions
About the two of you: habits, plans, and what makes time together good.
Learn one new little thing about me every day or learn one big secret about me once a year?
Ask which little thing they'd like to learn today.
A day that follows my plan or a day where chance decides everything?
After the answer you can schedule that day right away — planned or not.
Go back together to the day we met or peek together five years ahead?
Reliving or sneaking a look? Ask what exactly they'd want to see.
A big city next to a park or a small town by the water?
It doesn't have to be about moving. It's more about where a person breathes easy.
Learn a new language together or learn to cook one tricky dish together?
If your answers differ, find out what matters to each of you in your pick.
Hear my honest opinion or hear nothing but support from me?
A useful one: different moments call for different things, and you can agree on that.
A trip for two with no internet or a trip with friends and with internet?
Ask how many offline days they could really handle.
Remember all our dates or remember all our jokes?
While you're at it, recall a couple of jokes only the two of you get.
Cook together on Sundays or walk together in the mornings?
Settle on one — and try it this week.
Long letters from me or short voice messages from me?
This is how you find out how they like getting attention when you're apart.
10 flirty questions
For when you want a little romance. Ask them when you're both in the mood.
Our first date all over again or our hundredth date, tonight?
Ask what from the first date they'd repeat — and what they absolutely wouldn't.
A compliment in front of everyone or a compliment in a whisper?
Worth remembering: some people like an audience, others like a secret.
A kiss in the rain or a kiss in an empty elevator?
One feels like a movie, the other like real life. Ask which feels closer.
A note on the mirror or a text at three in the afternoon?
Two small signs of attention: ask which one they'd remember longer.
A slow dance in the living room or a hand-in-hand walk through the city at night?
Both are easy to arrange tonight. Whoever picked does the inviting.
Know my first thought about you or know my last thought before I fall asleep?
A follow-up fits here: tell them the thought they picked.
A week of little surprises or one evening planned down to the last detail?
You'll also find out which of you likes planning surprises and which likes getting them.
A look from across the room or a hand on your shoulder when you least expect it?
It's about how they like noticing that someone's into them: from afar or up close.
A date where work talk is off-limits or a date where phones stay away?
Try the rule you picked on your next date.
Hear “I miss you” or hear “I feel good with you”?
A nice way to finish. You can say the chosen line right now.
How to keep the conversation going
The pick is only half the game. The other half is three simple follow-ups: “Why that one?”, “Would you have said the same a year ago?” and “What would have to change for you to pick the other one?”
If your answers differ, that's no reason to argue. Different picks are the best material you'll get: ask each other to defend your choice in one sentence.
If you're long-distance
Over text it's easy to spoil a question: one of you answers, and the other already knows. Agree to send your answers at the same time, or play with a link: you each pick on your own phone, and the picks only open once you've both chosen.
You don't have to answer right away. One question in the morning and one at night is already a small tradition.
The short version
- How many questions for one evening?
- Seven to ten is plenty. Talking five through properly beats racing through thirty.
- What if we don't like a question?
- Skip it and take the next one. No explanation needed.
- Are these questions in the game?
- The link game has its own 60 questions in three sets — Funny, About us and Flirty. You can ask the ones from this article in the game chat or out loud.
More to explore
- Would You Rather? Seven questions for twoThe link game: seven questions, and the picks open together.
- Truth or Dare for Two: Questions and Dares for a Night In or TextingTruth or Dare for two: 24 questions and dares.
- Icebreaker questions that are easy to answerIf you just met: questions that are easy to start with.
- Date night at home: plans with a first stepDate ideas for a night in — for when you run out of questions.